Sorry Dakota

Ever hurt someone you care about? No matter how many times you apologize you still feel bad. I was on an emotional roller coaster because I felt bad for hurting Dakota. I was cutting her nails and I cut them down to far, I made her bleed. First off, it was not intentional secondly Dakota is my chichuahua.

I went into panic mode when I saw the blood, she was shaking and she looked so sad all because I made an error and caused her pain. First thing I did, was call my brother. Asked him what am I suppose to do, the bleeding wouldn't stop. Boo (my brother and yes I call him Boo) told me to put some flour on it and Neosporin.

I jumped up with Dakota in my hand, she was wrapped in a black throw, wrapped a paper towel around her paw while I checked the kitchen for flour. No flour at Jay's crib. I had to think on my feet, so Ms. E grabbed the pancake mix, Neosporin and I put them both on her paw. Then took her back to the bedroom with me and I held her paw onto the paper towel, being careful not to apply pressure. I wanted the bleeding to clot and this concoction should do that.

The bleeding stopped within ten minutes. Panic mode over, now I wanted to lay down, it was late. I lied down on my pillow and brought the throw up to my pillow so I could hold Dakota. She feel asleep for roughly 20 minutes then she decided to get up, go under the covers and lay with Jay. Mama E was no longer needed:(

Say No to Michael Vick

Seems Michael Vick was at Buffalo Wing Factory in Ashburn VA today. I ask why? I am trying to like the Redskins simply because my man does but if they bring on Michael Vick, I will never like this team.

I have major issues with Michael Vick. My question to Michael is, how the hell can you treat animals that are considered "mans best friend" that way? Do you really have no heart. Humans that encouraged this intolerable horrific act are disgusting.

Karma, embrace this word because Karma is a bitch.

A few things that really get my blood boiling.

1. Another black man in the spot light and you couldn't act right for the young black men that are looking up to you. You should be ashamed of yourself.
2. Pit Bulls already have a bad name due to people like you. Certain counties will euthanize a Pit instead of trying to find a good home for them due to there reputations again because of people like you.

Known facts about this breed.

1. Excellent guard dogs
2. Trains easily
3. Good with children
4. Extremely loving
5. Loyal
6. They are not people haters or people eaters
7. The aggressive tendencies this breed has is towards other dogs and animals. If properly trained they will not be aggressive towards other animals.

Before you get any breed of dog, I recommend Cesar Millan (The Dog Whisperer). Cesar is an excellent guide in training dogs. Understand the breed of dog you are getting and really comprehend that rasising a dog is a lot of responsibility. Be real with youself, if you can't commit to this responsibility then pick a pet that does not require so much attention.

Pets deserve a great home and love too.

Does She or Doesn't She???

"Does She or Doesn't She" that is the question.

At this point who has not heard about Jessica Simpson and Tony Romo's break-up. I ask my readers, is this really a shocker? Answer, hell no!

A little advice Jessica, keep your dad out of your relationships. Your mate is dating you, not your dad. This relationship you seem to have with your dad is rather sickening. What goes on between you and anyone you date, is not your entire family's business. You are big girl, start acting like one. As that saying goes, "If it's too hot in the kitchen, then get the hell out". I think its time you sought some help. Psychiatric help that is. Does she or doesn't she need some help?

Honestly, did you really think Tony was going to ask you to marry him? Let's be realistic here. Cowboys fans had high hopes for last season, hell high hopes for every season and on the real, ever since he starting dating you his game has gone down hill. Tony needs to focus on his career and leave women alone until he gets his act together.

I realize, I can't blame the past two years on Jessica. However, dealing with Jessica and her crazy dad would drive any good player/boyfriend crazy.

Why wouldn't Jessica move to Texas with Tony? Her career isn't really doing anything. If she loved him the way she claims to love him, when asked to move to Texas she would have gone. His career is with the Cowboys, you can't come between his career and his fans! You don't want the feel the wrath of Cowboys fans.


It's time you wake up and step into the real world of dating. No man is going to marry you if he has to marry your dad too. I'm still in shock that Nick married you. Married being the operative word.

Readers...please know that I do not dislike Jessica Simpson. I truly believe the girl is crazy but I do enjoy some of her songs.

Yes, Please Abuse Me.

Ladies, every time you allow a man to abuse you, and you take them back. You are saying the title of my blog today, "Yes, Please Abuse Me."

I know that sounds harsh and rude but please understand I am being real on this subject. No man has a right to put his hands on you, in fact no one has a right to abuse you in any way. YOU DESERVE BETTER! Say that phrase over and over until it registers in your head.

The reason this topic has risen to the surface for me is because of this, I was watching This Christmas the other night. I totally forgot that Chris Brown was in this movie. I had to stop watching it because I can't stand the sight of him. I have erased all the music I had by Chris Brown and I refuse to watch his movies. I will not support him or any other man that abuses women. Best believe I love Stomp The Yard. What Chris did to Rhianna is unforgivable. For that matter Chris is young, to see acts of violence coming from someone so young is crazy. Unfortunately, abusive people have no age barrier.

Let me shed some light on something very real, I am hearing young girls say "She must of deserved it." This statement really gets my blood boiling! I am not sure what parents are teaching their children but we all need to wake up and start talking with out children more. Girls...A man should never abuse you, ever! Please understand that.

I also hear woman saying I just need to try harder, he had a rough day. Ladies, that does not give him the excuse to use you as his punching bag. Real men do not abuse women. Real men know how to channel their anger the right way. Real men are secure not controlling.

Can we say anger management and serious control issues. They need help and you need help too! You need to get the hell out of there and put your life together for yourself and if you have children for them too. He needs some serious jail time along with therapy.

Please help yourselves, realize the message you are leaving when your children witness this. Children repeat what they have seen. You are not helping them by keeping the family together.

I have listed three sites below that will help you. If you have questions, respond to my blog.

http://www.safehorizon.org/page.php?nav=dvs&page=sheltertour

http://www.womenshealth.gov/violence/state/

http://www.rainn.org/index.html

Toy Car....I think, Yes!!!

My New Favorite Car!!!!

Yes, Ms. E would look hot in this adorable car and the wind up action totally suits me.

Check out this video.

http://www.smartusainsider.com/video/video/show?id=2029424%3AVideo%3A405267

Did I Hear Romper?

Ms. E has spent several days on the hunt for a romper with no luck of finding one. Why am I looking for a romper you ask...I saw it in People Style Magazine. Make no mistake, I love People Style mag and best believe I was out there trying to find the perfect romper for my slim yet curvy frame.

I hit up the mall with my sister tonight...yes I was looking for the perfect romper again and shoes. We found plenty of rompers and after trying on three of them, Ms. E realized rompers truly are for children. No matter the style, when I looked in the mirror, the mirror was telling me Oh Hell No, take that off!

The ironic part of tonight, while we were walking around the mall we saw this grown woman in a black romper with cleopatra sandals on. My reaction was shouldn't she be on the ground crawling around. Thank you universe for not only showing me how stupid I looked but also showing me that I'm not the only one that looks stupid in these things.

Lesson, just because it looks cute on the pages of Style Watch doesn't mean it should be worn on grown women. This fashion craze/fad is wrong. Wrong with a Capital W. Ladies, Ladies, Ladies...The romper was designed for children. It's a cute little outfit that allows children to move easily. These one piece outfits are not for adults.

We are not children anymore, leave the onezies to the kids.

R.I.P Michael Jackson

MJ dead... Do you know where you were, what you were doing when you found out MJ had passed? I remember so vividly, the day and what I was doing will be forever burned in my brain.

I grew up listening to MJ. I remember watching the Thriller video over and over, trying to learn his choreography. Result, unsuccessful to this day but I will continue to attempt and enjoy one of my many favorite videos by this amazing Iconic Legend.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AtyJbIOZjS8

Michael, your music is incredible! I understood and engulfed every message you put out there. The songs below truly rocked but the meanings behind it are extremely POWERFUL.

• Man In the Mirror
• They Don't Care About Us
• We Are The World
• Heal The World
• Earth Song
• Black or White

Michael didn't just sing his message, he took ACTION. Remember that!

Barry Gordy said it best, Michael is simply "The Greatest Entertainer That Ever Lived." When Michael was on stage, you could not keep your eyes off of him. I remember when I was a teenager, MTV use to play hours of MJ and Janet videos. I could not remove myself from the TV. In the past three weeks, FUSE, MTV, and VH1 has played Michael videos and concerts. Again, my eyes have been glued to the TV. I love watching him dance.

My condolences go out to his children, family, friends and fans.

Michael, I am smiling although my heart is aching.

You will live on forever.