Ladies, every time you allow a man to abuse you, and you take them back. You are saying the title of my blog today, "Yes, Please Abuse Me."
I know that sounds harsh and rude but please understand I am being real on this subject. No man has a right to put his hands on you, in fact no one has a right to abuse you in any way. YOU DESERVE BETTER! Say that phrase over and over until it registers in your head.
The reason this topic has risen to the surface for me is because of this, I was watching This Christmas the other night. I totally forgot that Chris Brown was in this movie. I had to stop watching it because I can't stand the sight of him. I have erased all the music I had by Chris Brown and I refuse to watch his movies. I will not support him or any other man that abuses women. Best believe I love Stomp The Yard. What Chris did to Rhianna is unforgivable. For that matter Chris is young, to see acts of violence coming from someone so young is crazy. Unfortunately, abusive people have no age barrier.
Let me shed some light on something very real, I am hearing young girls say "She must of deserved it." This statement really gets my blood boiling! I am not sure what parents are teaching their children but we all need to wake up and start talking with out children more. Girls...A man should never abuse you, ever! Please understand that.
I also hear woman saying I just need to try harder, he had a rough day. Ladies, that does not give him the excuse to use you as his punching bag. Real men do not abuse women. Real men know how to channel their anger the right way. Real men are secure not controlling.
Can we say anger management and serious control issues. They need help and you need help too! You need to get the hell out of there and put your life together for yourself and if you have children for them too. He needs some serious jail time along with therapy.
Please help yourselves, realize the message you are leaving when your children witness this. Children repeat what they have seen. You are not helping them by keeping the family together.
I have listed three sites below that will help you. If you have questions, respond to my blog.
http://www.safehorizon.org/page.php?nav=dvs&page=sheltertour
http://www.womenshealth.gov/violence/state/
http://www.rainn.org/index.html
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I understand your point. As a women on a blog you make since, but abuse goes both ways. I have spoken to a few women that use the excuse that,"men do it everyday" to justify any behavior.
ReplyDeleteI beleive that poeple need to stop abusing one another period. I was shocked to learn that I am older and do not understand how our younger generation thinks. Like you said, some people thinks that she deserved it. I was not there and will not speculate. I will say that a volitile relationship is not good for anyone. But if they go back to that (on either side) you have to look at the individuals.
I agree, abuse does go both ways. However, if a woman is trying to hurt you, a man needs to walk away, hold her arms down if you can. But, men are stronger than women and when you physically abuse her, I have a major problem with that.
ReplyDeleteMy blogged stemmed from this, these young kids saying what did she do to deserve this? This should not be the comment that comes from females. This is not a lesson our younger generation should be saying.
For all we know, Rihanna could have been yelling at him, she slapped him from my understanding. I do not condone that however he hit her. Chris could of walked the hell away, not hit her.
Any female that thinks it's ok to abuse men is just as wrong. I have witnessed women yelling in public at her man and slapping him. Never seen one hit her back though. Should they stand their and take that abuse, heck no. Leave that crazy bitch alone.
No one has the right to abuse you in any way, male or female.
Major lesson here....Communication - Use your words not violence.